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Saturday, March 24, 2012

Things I AM!

I had a post a long time ago titled "Things I am NOT" so I thought I should follow that up with the things I AM..

1.  I am a good listener - I really love to listen to my friends talk.  I try hard to give them helpful advice.  I think this is one reason one of my passions is to be a counselor.  One of these days I will go back for my Master's Degree in counseling.

2.  I am a good cook and baker - This has been a passion of mine since I was a little girl.  I love to have treats for my family and I love to try new things...now, they may not always be good, but I sure do try.

3.  I am the peace maker of the family - I have always been the one who wants to keep and make every one happy.  Many times it is at my expense... I have learned, in the past few years, to be better at trying to make myself happy before trying to make others.  But it is a hard habit to break!

4.  I am a Breastfeeding and Preemie Parenting advocate - Breastfeeding is something I feel very passionate about.  I did not breastfeed Kade, due to having NO support from my family.  I regret that decision more than anything else.  When Blake was born premature, I could have cared less what my family thought about breastfeeding...best decision I ever made :)  I feel very strongly about it...Also, when Blake was in the NICU, I had no one to talk to who had been in my situation.  This was very hard for me.  I would love to talk to other mothers struggling during their NICU time...but since we don't have a NICU up here, I have to do it online....

5.  I am a very social person - Anyone who knows me, knows this is true.  I think I could talk to a brick wall if I had to.  I am happiest when I am socializing with friends and family.  I love a good conversation and I am rarely at a loss for words :)

6.  I am very forgetful - Holy Cow...what has happened to my brain?  I think I would forget my head if it was not attached.  I am forgetful and I lose everything!  It is quite rediculous....

7.  I am very self-consious - I hate this about me.  I wish I could be happy in my skin, but I have always been plagued by my low self-esteem...mainly with weight issues...

8.  I am a person who can get by with very little sleep - I have always been this way.  Even in college, I would stay up really late and get up early for work.  I can function just fine on very few hours of sleep...I guess that is one of the reasons I am a decent Mom...

9.  I am a home body.  I love to be home with my family.  Many times my mom will ask me to go to the movies with her.  Honestly, I would rather stay home with my husband and kids.  I hate driving the long 24 mile drive to Pickford at night and you will never catch me out and about when it is snowing.  Some people think I am boring.  I think I like safety and routines.

10.  I am an organizational nightmare!  I am not kidding...I try so hard and it always goes back to things falling out of my cabinets.  I feel sorry for Larry.  See, he is an Engineer.  He is percise, everything has a spot, and he is very organized.  He has had to learn to live with me...and I feel bad.  I try so hard, but it overwhelms me so much that I run from it.  This year, I have devoted my life to organizing:)  Stay tuned for progress notes on this subject!

So, these are just a few of the things I am!  If you know me, and I am forgetting something (refer back to #6) please feel free to leave a comment about it...I would love others perspectives of me!

Until Next Time,

Shelby

2 comments:

  1. Shelby,
    you forgot that you are beautiful, loyal, and trustworthy. You will always be a constant in my life. No matter where our lives take us. We always seem to come back together.
    Your Friend, Katrina

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  2. Thank you so much! You are such an amazing friend. I can't imagine you not being in my life. You inspire me, teach me, and make me a better person...Now, go have that baby my friend! I am waiting patiently for the phone call :)

    Love you my friend,
    Shelby

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